In black and white

Kyle came to me yesterday evening, frowning and looking very troubled.

He held this up and said, "I don't want this, it is pink and it is horrible."

Maybe the princesses further exacerbated his dislike for the pen, but I think it probably has alot to do with the colour.

Purple used to be his favorite colour and now it has since changed to blue.

Once, he asked me, "Mummy, is your favorite colour pink?"

My reply to him was, "Nope, my favorite colour is blue."

His response was, "But blue is a colour for boys!"

And I had to confuse him further by saying, "Whoever said that? There is nothing wrong with girls liking blue or black for that matter, or boys liking pink."

These days things for kids are so gender specific. Blue and cars are for boys, while pink and princesses are for girls. Interestingly, when we are at some hospitals, we see the babies in the nursery window and we can almost tell the gender of the babies, just by looking at the colour of the blankets.

I think colours do not need to be gender specific, however according to this article, preference for colours it seems is in our genes! That surely doesn't explain why I like blue though.

At least there are no debates as yet on the colour yellow or red for that matter…

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Oh please, mom!

This evening while before I left Kyle alone in the hall to watch his TV while I went to take my bath.

Mom : Kyle, Mummy is going to take my bath. So call daddy if u need any help (hb was in the study)

Kyle : Ok.

Mom : Don't do anything strange ok?

Kyle : (Looks at me quizzically) Like what?

Mom : Umm…ah…like maybe open the balcony door and jump down or something.

Can't blame me for being so specific and quite inane. We live on the 2nd floor and there are no grills in our balcony and I just needed to make sure that he will be alright by himself for a while.

Kyle : (Looked up at me and rolled his eyes)

Now he is definitely growing up too fast…he actually rolled his eyes at me!

Don't they like do that only when they reach their teenage years?

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What about art from Singapore Art Museum?

"Come and look Mummy, look what I created."

I followed him to the living area and saw this,

 

"Is this known as 'Mess on the floor'?" I asked him.

"No…It is a creation from long time ago, you are not suppose to touch it. Afterwards the people at the counter will scold you."

Then he added, "This is a creation at the museum and I am the artist, only I can touch it."

At least he has learnt the concept of installation art from the Singapore Art Museum. For a while I was starting to think that the only memorable thing that made any significant impact on him from our visits to the museum, is that people are not suppose touch most of the displays in the museum.

Having displays that children cannot touch at a children's exhibition is like putting a piece of cheese next to a mouse and expecting the mouse not to eat it. Maybe it might be better if they hire someone who has early childhood development background to plan the children's programme, and then save the money/effort on hiring people who will bark at the kids when their little hands reach towards the display.

It's interesting how a not so positive norm like, 'See but not touch' will be so memorable for a child. It's just like how negative experiences tend to be a lot more memorable for some us rather than the positive ones.

We are still light years behind for our local art exhibits for children. There were some improvement from the recent 'Children's Season' at SAM but until the day that they totally remove exhibits with the 'See but not touch' element, then it will be taken off my list of "Only if you ran out of places to go to in Singapore with your kids."

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